August 28, 2006
Weekend Observations & Site Updates
Had the unfortunate experience of hanging out at an extremely snobby upscale club this weekend (with Kitten, of course). Cover charge was twice the going rate, which resulted in a room full of young male lawyers (wearing, of all things, business shirts untucked over jeans) strutting around and checking out women (who were in turn preening and likely hoping to get noticed by rich professional males).
Now Kitten and I are both fairly successful young women, so we are not impressed by boring, witless men who announce that they are one of 500 associate attorneys at a giant lawfirm, and then wait for the dull thud of women falling at their feet. Why, I actually expected someone clever and interesting to approach us, only to be terribly disappointed by a pretentious wanker chatting us up about "wine culture" because we looked like the sort of women who could recommend a good red (having only recently taken up this activity, I am hardly in a position to be making recommendations beyond "disgusting" and "tolerable").
Worst of all, I saw my 40-something botoxed dental surgeon there - the same guy who checked my gums this morning in preparation for major dental work this September. I'm pretty sure he saw me but couldn't figure out why I seemed familiar.
Anyway, the whole experience has made me rather cynical about going to clubs for any other reason besides dancing and having fun with Kitten.
Turning to more serious topics, I will once again be working on the redesign and may screw up the existing layout for brief periods. My main objective is to create more space and reorganize front page elements in a more useful way. I know a few of you dislike the 3-column look, but Lounsbury and Matthew made pleasant noises, so I'm sticking with it for now.
Regardless, comments are welcome. Test page is available here.
Posted by eerie at August 28, 2006 05:57 PM
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Comments
E: and having fun with Kitten.
that conjures so many wonderful images.
btw, i'm favourably impressed with the current test page. My one suggestion is to fully label each content area (ie: Main Articles, Older Main Articles, Personal Journals, Book Reviews, etc) and make it more clear where the divides are between areas (ie: darker lines or something that make it stand out and that are different from other site accent marks.) also, i assume you'll make the top graphic width match the new main body width.
Posted by: drdougfir
at August 28, 2006 09:21 PM
I agree. Am working on those visual cues as we speak.
Posted by: eerie
at August 28, 2006 11:28 PM
supurb.
i bet Kitten is attracted to you based on your website authoring skills.
Posted by: drdougfir
at August 28, 2006 11:42 PM
> Why, I actually expected someone clever and interesting to approach us...
I'm not sure whose expectations are further removed from reality: yours for expecting to meet clever and interesting humans in one discretely random event or mine for expecting their general non-existence besides those occurring from pseudo-miracles. (Granted, I am extraordinarily uninteresting, but so is mostly everybody else, except in brief passing.)
Perhaps I am of the wrong impression, but even detaching from my own trench's perspective, it seems like this audience tends to set the bar somewhat high (in a relative sense vis-a-vis the general populace).
Or maybe you're just *way* more forgiving than I am.
Posted by: blue92 at August 29, 2006 12:07 AM
blue & e:
you two just aren't going to the right bars. try the local library. that hot girl/boy with the glasses in the non-fiction section is interesting in more ways than purely literary!
Posted by: drdougfir
at August 29, 2006 12:21 AM
DrDoug: I think a big reason Kitten likes me is that I am not at all threatened by her looks.
Blue: I really have no excuse for being hopeful. Rationally there is no reason for that expectation.
DrDoug 2: You have no idea how much time I spend in the World History/Mil History/International Poli sci section at the bookstore. Hardly anyone even shows up there.
Of course, there are plenty of gorgeous men in suits browsing the Management/Business section, but most of the books there are so boring.
Posted by: eerie
at August 29, 2006 12:35 AM
E: obviously we need to shop in the same bookstore. (although i do tend to stray toward the engineering/physics/travel sections from time to time.
Posted by: drdougfir
at August 29, 2006 12:51 AM
Heh. The only time I've ever actually had a conversation in a bookstore of more than a sentence or two was because the "True Crime" section was next to "Current Affairs" and History. I don't recall much detail beyond that there was something about how the woman felt she couldn't read the book about Laci Petersen because she had been pregnant at the same time.
Oh, yea, and there was the one time I somehow got a spider on a cashier. That was amusing.
Posted by: blue92 at August 29, 2006 09:01 AM
You have no idea how much time I spend in the World History/Mil History/International Poli sci section at the bookstore. Hardly anyone even shows up there.
Funny, whenever my friend Hrvatski Boy and I do that on a Saturday night, we stumble on teenagers making out. Apparently they think nobody is boring enough to spend Saturday night in the history section.
Posted by: Eva Luna at August 29, 2006 10:39 AM

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