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November 17, 2008

The Domestic Euro

As mentioned in a previous entry, the Euro flew down to visit me for a long weekend. Thinking he might enjoy a glamorous night out, I surprised him with box seats to the opera. He enjoyed this immensely, but afterwards began to express a curious preference for "domestic" activities. Shopping for groceries with me, cooking breakfast for me, reading the newspaper to me in the morning while I lay in bed half-asleep (bloody exhausted, actually). And so on.

To be honest, I found his urge to do mundane things a bit confusing.

Now I'm set to fly across the Atlantic to his ancestral home for Christmas, where I will meet his parents, attend midnight mass and wander around picturesque countryside villages. He has not dared to use the L-word on me, but I get the impression he is thinking long-term. Not sure how I feel about that, but considering I'm still going along with this surreal adventure...

Posted by eerie at November 17, 2008 01:48 AM
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Ah, he has reached the age where domesticity seems like an interesting novelty and change of pace.

No worries, generally this wears off after 6-12 months of actual full out 100% all the time practice. If not, well then its in for a penny, in for a pound.

Posted by: The Lounsbury at November 17, 2008 08:33 AM

About damn time you gave us a Eurozone update.

Posted by: drdougfir [TypeKey Profile Page] at November 17, 2008 12:37 PM

"the L-word"??!?

Oh, love; but for a moment you had me going.

Posted by: matthew hogan at November 17, 2008 03:44 PM

The L-word could also be "Lounsbury"...

Posted by: drdougfir [TypeKey Profile Page] at November 17, 2008 03:50 PM

You know the word, so abused and commoditized that it's practically meaningless. I'm more comfortable with subtle, sincere gestures. Luckily he's picked up on that.

As for domesticity...well, who knows really. I think he wanted to settle down ages ago, but his girlfriends were invariably boring, crazy, insecure, etc.

Posted by: eerie at November 17, 2008 09:20 PM

The L-word could be all sorts of things, for that matter - lunacy, lust (not that that's a bad thing in itself, or mutually exclusive with some of the other choices), languishing...

And hey, especially as you say you're not so domestically inclined yourself, it might be a nice Jack Sprat match. So you don't wither away to nothing and all.

So does he make a nice breakfast?

Posted by: Eva Luna at November 18, 2008 10:56 AM

"You know the word, so abused and commoditized that it's practically meaningless."

Oh poor poor cynic. Are you kidding? I love that word. All you need is love. God is love. Love will keep us together, whatever. Love, look at the two of us, strangers in many ways.

It's also a many-splendored thing.

It is patient, kind, does not put on airs, gives 1 corinthians 13 its oomph, and it is one of three things that last, with faith and hope as place and show, but is the greatest of them.

It is, however, a zero in tennis.

And along with "The check is in the mail" and I promise not to **** in your *****"; "I love you" is the most common lie around, especially about 1245 am, after three drinks and a Toni Braxton album.

Posted by: matthew hogan at November 18, 2008 11:55 AM

You know that somebody had to do it.

http://www.gocomics.com/loveis/

This, on the other hand, probably wasn't strictly necessary.

http://theendofhumor.blogspot.com/

Posted by: Anonymous at November 18, 2008 01:49 PM

Ahh, those comics are perfect for my temperament.

And he cooks decent pancakes.

Posted by: eerie at November 18, 2008 03:28 PM

Leaving aside the Innocents inputs, I rather support ongoing engagement in the European as
(i) Said person has current liquidity to to finance further investigation;
(ii) Potentially personally interesting (this of course already presume the first cut on 'is this person in my physical scope, etc).

Now, I am not against sentimental rubbish as such, but it should be focused and useful.

Posted by: The Lounsbury at November 19, 2008 04:34 PM

Well, I suppose he is my de facto boyfriend due to impending parental introduction, despite my not officially conferring any such title upon him (or vice versa).

His background is fascinating. Can't discuss here as it will certainly blow his cover, but it is unusual.

Also, he is ahl al-kitab, which inspired him to raise some interesting religious questions when we first began dating, including what our children might practice (if anything) and would I be "allowed" to marry him under Islamic law? It was all very cute, though I found it mildly disconcerting that he was already imagining our hypothetical mixed-Book children.

Posted by: eerie [TypeKey Profile Page] at November 19, 2008 11:20 PM

With your skills, they would be children of the people of the e-Book.

Posted by: matthew hogan at November 20, 2008 11:46 AM

That at least would be a step up from being people of the bookie.

Posted by: Tom Scudder at November 20, 2008 04:05 PM

"That at least would be a step up from being people of the bookie."

In these days' financial climate, that would describe her Mr. Banker.

Posted by: matthew hogan at November 21, 2008 10:23 AM

Indeed, Banker has been looking a bit haggard of late. Poor thing, he used to be so handsome.

Posted by: eerie at November 23, 2008 01:13 AM

"No worries, generally this wears off after 6-12 months of actual full out 100% all the time practice"

LOL! Earlier in many cases but there is a zone when it seems like a good idea.

Posted by: zenpundit at November 24, 2008 01:28 AM

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